
It was, I suppose, a way of telling me to butt out, but it was also an Oedipean response in that he was contesting his position in the family - as all young men do with their fathers. A healthy response... an unhealthy subject.
But.. kids DO know more than us and they do look at us with a form of cynicism. So when we talk about drugs I am always looking for what I call 'the side door'; a way of discussion where he accepts that I at least know a bit more than most parents.. so this site is quite handy.
Just telling a kid that drugs are bad for them is a sure way of saying goodbye to a meaningful on-going dialogue, so education - ours, not theirs - is, I believe, all-important. This site assists with some well-presented yet comprehensive learning tools about the newer substances our kids are being presented.
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